Usually because they have married the wrong person!
Does your partner bring joy or sadness into your life?
Does your partner make you feel relaxed or tense?
Are you interested in everything your partner has to say or have you heard it all before and it is so boring?
Do you respect your partner or think that he/she would be better off in another century on another planet?
The most important one of all…
Do you really fancy your partner?
Did you ever?
The picture above is of the happiest couple I know. They tick all the boxes.
Getting divorced is sad and lonely… staying married to the wrong person is sadder and lonelier but… if there are children of the union every effort should be made to make it work otherwise you are simply passing the sad and lonely baton on to your own children!